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By Jörg Romstötter (More) • Last updated on October 30.06.2023, XNUMX • First published on 09.11.2017/XNUMX/XNUMX • So far 4385 readers, 2919 social media shares Likes & Reviews (5 / 5) • Read & write comments
Role stereotypes and false role models cause many misunderstandings between men and women Women. What many do not know: It starts with children in the sandpit. What can parents do about it early on? 2 X 2 tips.
Already during sandcastle building, our little ones lay their foundations for the future togetherness. Totally unconscious and unreflected. It is faster than a false stone set as we suspect.
For example, this provocative saying: "Girls can't do that as well as boys!" - and now?
A male four-year-old throat crows in the blue sky. Legs apart, dirty, smeared with thread, torn trousers, sweat-spliced hair. Wielding the sand scoop.
I ask: “Are you there? for sure? " Prompt: "Yes, because girls are not as smart as boys !!!" I again: “And if you are wrong? Recently your friend Steffi has ... and you were so excited. ” My son: “Um… Steffi is sooo smart! Steffi is really great! ” I: "Then Steffi can build it that way, right?" My son: “Yes, Steffi can do it really well. She can do that much better than me. Look, she did so and so and so and… ”
I love it! If only it were that easy with adults too.
It is true that our little ones in the sandbox age are proven “separatists” and live their gender as a matter of course. Are more attracted to members of the same sex than to the opposite sex. This is not only completely normal, but extremely important for the powerful Definition of your own gender.
But we know that children also adapt the gender stereotypes of their close social environment. Here it becomes critical when our totally unimaginably absorbing young adult and future responsible and decision makers can impulsively grapschen so into the medieval box of gender assessment.
Where did they get that from? The – much too! – there will hardly be sparse male educators. Maybe the sand castle fellow students up to Unicorn Filly? Because without thinking, they store everything in their small, high-performance brains Behavior and articulate by parents, relatives, neighbors and other “adults”.
What they save there, they give just as unreflective again. Yes, much more, they act as real water heater and shout the slogans with fervor. Children are still full of pure physical experience. What they experience literally goes into flesh and blood. They are what they experience. Right now, without any future projection. They can not do that yet.
What Thea-Laelia and Julius-Leopold bring from their everyday and family world into the melting pot sandbox is taken at face value and saved by all the digging colleagues. When the four-year-old then crows these slogans and there is no one around to put his statements to the test, traditional gibberish digs new castles into the fresh air Brain.
Because until the dear little ones outgrow the sandcastles and Filly this one from the unicorns Welt are served, many years pass with many formative repetitions of what is experienced and heard on a daily basis. This digs deep into the gray cells and connects the synapses into powerful strands of unreflective habits.
At some point, this experiential knowledge bounces off the reality of a corporate world that tries by all means to turn these blocking ways of thinking into prosperous togetherness.
And in doing so, he comes across something so deeply buried in the unconscious that it is not at all obvious what reservations and judgments are there. It only shows up clear in the smallest expressions and movements – unconsciously.
Bringing this behavior, which is stored in the subconscious, to consciousness and thus developing expanded skills, is the task of today - by everyone. "Uff!" It escapes us with this thought and I reflexively long for conversations on the sandpit with four-year-olds.
It's not light, but simple in itself. Because what is behind the experiences that our four-year-olds have? Most of the time it is fears that break the mold. Fueled by the competitive situation of the parental jobs.
Like one of mine customers from the craft trades reported painfully and at the same time astonished: “Strange, especially the younger colleagues have special reservations towards women. The older ones are far more relaxed.”
And if you're already going to start planting the seeds for everyone's tomorrow, don't leave little men and women alone and on long-distances Background sit. Bring our offspring into the present and thus into the future Future:
See you soon at the sandbox.
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Jörg Romstötter is a graduate engineer and makes the effects of nature usable for work and life. The engineer, business economist and certified coach founded and ran a company with over 300 employees for a large agricultural organization. In countless days outside and on over 50 journeys in the great natural spaces of the earth, he opened up the comprehensive benefits of nature. Among other things, he succeeded in traversing the High Atlas Mountains for the first time in Morocco lengthwise on his own. Today he gives lectures as an author, coaches and travels with his customers to special natural areas such as desert, tundra and taiga, which help them to find themselves. All texts by Jörg Romstötter.
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