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From Dr. Cornelia Topf (More) • Last updated on October 16.02.2024, XNUMX • First published on 14.11.2017/XNUMX/XNUMX • So far 7147 readers, 1130 social media shares Likes & Reviews (5 / 5) • Read & write comments
a USUniversity once did an interesting experiment on the Small Talk: She sent a subject into a room full of mathematicians. After 20 minutes, the mathematicians had to rate the test person. What was the result?
Everyone was thrilled: “What a nice guy! And really knows about math! ” The big hit, you already guessed it: the nice guy had no idea about math. He was an art student. He didn't have the faintest glimmer of binomials.
He had a pronounced empathy for this: if the other person babbled on about Fermat's theorem, the test person did not respond to Fermat's theorem (a non-small-talker would try and embarrass himself). No, he rather responded to the feelings of the mathematician.
If the arithmetic artist complains about an unsuccessful attempt to Solution of the theorem, the art student said: "Yes, that's frustrating, unfortunately I know that all too well." Talking about a new approach, the mathematician said: “A new approach? That sounds promising. What do you make of it?"
Certainly: After more than 20 minutes would be for sure found out that the boy has no idea about integrals. Then he could still have said: “That's right, I'm studying Art. But I am very interested in mathematics. Isn't a Michelangelo of mathematical precision in his aesthetics?"
But that's not the point. The point is: empathy enables the greatest possible recognition. Because every human being, even if he is a mathematician, is deeply emotional. Who perceive these feelings and spiegeln can is a small talk genius.
This ability can also be trained. He/She only needs very good ones Eyes and ears and a feeling for one's own feelings. Needless to say, really good empaths are great at small talk, at negotiations, at Coaching, in management and everywhere in life so scary successfully are that they are practically everyone People could wrap around their finger - if they wanted to. So if you still sneer at the subject of “small talk”, you are ignoring the existence of gravity. A fatal ignorance.
Expertise is important. In every subject. But for the great and lasting success in the Job, for luck and satisfaction in life rich expertise and wealth not from.
This requires communicative and social Expertise. Anyone who is good at small talk is good with people, can communicate well and thus has the key to a much greater inner and outer wealth than mere professional competence could ever give him.
emptiness in Head? That works. For example in golf: After just a few rounds of this beautiful game. With a variant for managers and other dignitaries:
Before you comment, consider whether your comment strengthens or weakens the report. "What do we want in Brazil?" A no-no. Because this is not a factual comment, but a polemical assessment!
Find out more about the background: Why does the Executive to Brazil, what are the advantages? And then your comment may turn out like this: “Brazil? Thunder weather, everyone is now in China and India - but in Brazil? Our boss is with the first again! ”
Well, the boss will be happy about you if you make such a nice comment. So practice your own, rapport-friendly Opinions to develop.
So many could now on the Idea come, small talk consists of putting on an interested face while listening and nodding with a friendly smile.
But this text has hopefully taught you a better - that's nonsense. As we have seen, small talk is so much more.
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Dr. Cornelia Topf is a certified business coach and international management trainer with support for over twenty years Cornelia Topf As an international management trainer and certified business coach, well-known companies of all sizes and industries. Her focus is on target-oriented communication and success-oriented body language. The promotion of women is particularly important to the doctor of economics. The managing director of “metatalk Kommunikation und Training” in Augsburg is the author of many specialist books and guides that have been translated into numerous languages. These include titles such as “Self-coaching for women”, “Negotiating successfully for women”, “Assertiveness for women”, “The guide book for cheeky women” or “Defusing presentation torpedoes”. Cornelia Topf is also a sought-after expert in the media. More information at www.metatalk-training.de All texts from Dr. Cornelia Topf.
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