Decisions often also mean compromises. That is why they are often so difficult for us, because we don't want to do without. But who his goal clear in Eyes has, is more willing also the unpleasant sides of a decision to wear.

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Make decisions well: yes, no, maybe?

We find it difficult to make decisions, because saying yes to something always means saying no to something else. Therefore are clear Objective, goal setting and focus Factors that are urgently needed for decision-making:

In fact it is mine Opinions After all, the most difficult part of a decision is to clearly define or clearly admit to yourself what you actually want – free from external influences or pretended motives. My interviews with the Sales-Director of Google Ireland, Fionnuala Meehan or the Psychologist and Professorin Dr. Petra Jansen gezeigt.

Decision making is a complex process

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When you make a decision, do you always think about the consequences of that decision? Do you consider the possibility that your decision will not work out? Think about how your decision(s) will affect your relationships with others People would affect? Are you considering the possibility that your decision might not work? Do you think about what your decision(s) would mean for your relationships with other people?

Decision-making is a complex process that is both time-consuming and difficult. The right decision at the right time is crucial for your Future. While there are no right or wrong answers, our decision-making process consists of the following stages: the Problem-/Situation analysis, the decision analysis, the Implementation, adaptation and maintenance.

Everyone has to define their own goals

Some time ago I discovered a very nice blog post on pinkchocolatebreak. The African-born author Jocelina Paixo Fortes, whom I was able to meet personally in Ireland, has the topic there Success and targets for success. And notes:

“In our society we tend to define success by external, material things but what good is all this if you're not happy with it? You can be the most 'successful' person in terms of material belongings but if you're nowhere near having a sense of peace, in my opinion you failed big time. So if you would think of success as a certain feeling you want to achieve, what is your definition of success? ”

What personal goals do you have?

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In the further course Jocelina also has her own personal ones in her blog post Set called - such as having the freedom to do the job that suits you Fun makes and fulfills them.

Goals that many other freelancers are likely to have, especially in the influencer and blogger scene, who like to deal with a nomadic lifestyle. But which may differ greatly from the goals of others.

Separate individual goals from the goals of society

And that is one of the basic problems when it comes to making decisions for your own life: goals can be very individual. And for this reason, our decisions are often very different, individual and difficult for others to understand.

In the worst case, we will be dissuaded from our decision. Or else we let the goals of others flow into our decisions and at the end - it is not surprising - we are not so happy with the result.

Making decisions is a complex process:

Many texts on the subject of "making decisions" therefore deal with this important topic clearly too superficially: it is all too often about how to make a clear decision in emergency situations Head received and thus reached the decision. However, this does not get to the root of the problem:

Who therefore also in difficult situations correctly and fast decide wants – a skill, by the way, that is in most leading position is required – it is a good idea to be clear about your personal motives beforehand. The clearer you have your own goal in mind, the easier it is to make a difficult decision, even in stressful situations.

Set smart goals

Sounds simple, but defining personal goals can sometimes be hard.

But there are useful methods for this, such as the SMARTMethod. SMART stands for Specific, Measurable, Achievable - Attainable, Realistic, associated with a specific time frame - Timely.

Keep your goals in mind with the gravestone method

Personally, this is too abstract - I like a tip better, even if it seems a bit macabre for one or the other: namely to imagine his funeral and to visualize.

“What would you like to hear about yourself in the speeches there? Maybe: 'He was a caring father.' Or: 'Your passion for environmental protection knew no bounds.' A vision can then be derived from this forms.

Focus your own goals and keep them clearly in mind

No matter which method you choose: If you have your own goals clearly in mind, it will ultimately be easier to make even difficult decisions and, if necessary, to make the necessary compromises.

Simply because you have a clear view of the direction in which it should actually go and then it is easier for one to renounce other and accept unpleasant consequences of his decision.


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